Tuesday, August 16, 2011

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Use offer code TIPS to get up to 50% OFF on most items, free shipping, adult DVDs, and a mystery gift at checkout at http://www.adamandeve.com.  I want all of us to abolish the idea of foreplay. Foreplay has gotten a bad rap. Many women feel bored by what it entails and many men see it as an obstacle to insertion. The “fore” of foreplay makes it seem like it has to be “before” some sort of main event. But make out sex or sex play are behaviors that can be enjoyed all on their own. It’s a way to take the pressure off and to not be focused on orgasm. You just get a chance to enjoy one another and all of those little nuances of making out that you’ve probably become disconnected from.  It can add spontaneity back while removing expectation. And it forces you to be more creative while expanding your repertoire. I suggest working it in at least a few times a month. Check out http://www.penelopepardee.com for more sex tips.

I also suggest a few doses of make out sex to couples having sexual performance issues. Ironically it often leads to sex without the pressure. But I like it because it’s pure fun and plain mixes it up. Sex doesn’t always have to end with penetration.  You can draw it out over the course of the day, stealing a few minutes here and there. Or simply surprise your partner with a deep kiss out of nowhere. Use offer code TIPS to get up to 50% OFF on most items, free shipping, adult DVDs, and a mystery gift at checkout at http://www.adamandeve.com. 

What counts as make out sex? All non-genital kissing, nibbling, licking, or sucking but you may want to throw in a little pinching and rubbing of the genitals through the clothes just to mix it up. It might even end up in a fabulous dryhumping session on the couch or in the car. Who knows? Check out http://www.penelopepardee.com for more sex tips.

The nice thing is that you get to reconnect and experience that bio-chemical wash of the bonding hormone oxytocin going. Plus you can do it anywhere and don’t have to worry about getting caught with your pants down. Use offer code TIPS to get up to 50% OFF on most items, free shipping, adult DVDs, and a mystery gift at checkout at http://www.adamandeve.com. 

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Pull your partner aside somewhere private and spill the beans. Go gently and slowly and allow for him or her to be free to ask questions and show either sadness or anger. You need to give them room emotionally to deal with the information you’ve just laid on them. Then show remorse! You’d be shocked at how many people get defensive about their cheating or try to blame it on their non-cheating partner ala “well, you never give me sex anymore.” No dice with the excuses my friend. If you want to save your relationship, you need to be sorry.  Next, explain that you are willing to work on the relationship. Cheating is always a symptom of something else. You and your partner will both need to commit to addressing these issues. This includes examining your motives. What do you get out of cheating? Does it stroke your ego? Are you just lonely? If you don’t look at how you got here, there is a good chance you’ll end up back here. Use offer code TIPS to get up to 50% OFF on most items, free shipping, adult DVDs, and a mystery gift at checkout at http://www.adamandeve.com.

For god’s sake, do not chicken out of telling your partner by thinking you can pretend it didn’t happen or by assuming that your partner will never find out -- or even worse, not telling your partner right away because you are trying to “protect” them from the hurt. That is complete BS.  The only person you are protecting is yourself because you don’t want to deal with their reaction. Check out http://www.penelopepardee.com for more sex tips.

Yes, it will get worse before it gets better.  It will be scary and sad and there will be anger. But having the courage to step up to the plate and really engage in your relationship can help to strengthen it too in the long run. I have come across many couples who have not only survived infidelity but have truly improved their relationships as a result. If you want to fix things between you and your partner, very often you can through honesty, communication and courage. Use offer code TIPS to get up to 50% OFF on most items, free shipping, adult DVDs, and a mystery gift at checkout at http://www.adamandeve.com.

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Educate yourself and your partner. Go to your local, friendly sexual health clinic. Talk to a medical specialist about your case, get some brochures.  Know what safer sex requires and what the disease/infection means to you. If you have herpes, how does your body behave during outbreaks? Are you monitoring your HPV through regular pap smears? When are you most contagious? There are ways to eroticize safer sex or for some long term couples practice harm reduction methods. Take the guess work out and decide to always be prepared with a barrier method. This way, you don’t have to stop the action and explain yourself.  Use offer code TIPS to get up to 50% OFF on most items, free shipping, adult DVDs, and a mystery gift at checkout at http://www.adamandeve.com.

Taking the time to explore your STI with your partner is a good model to establish early in a relationship. There is no better way to begin a relationship; it will be good practice and help you to discuss other difficult and intimate issues later on. Anyone worth their salt will appreciate your candor and know that you truly respect them. Use offer code TIPS to get up to 50% OFF on most items, free shipping, adult DVDs, and a mystery gift at checkout at http://www.adamandeve.com. Check out http://www.penelopepardee.com for more sex tips.

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Use offer code TIPS to get up to 50% OFF on most items, free shipping, adult DVDs, and a mystery gift at checkout at http://www.adamandeve.com. Oral sex doesn’t have to be intimidating. If you have a male partner, there are great ways to not only to get him off but ways you can relax and enjoy it too. First of all, get to know the lay of land. His anatomy includes the glans (head of the penis), frenulum (where the glans meets the shaft on the underside – very sensitive), shaft, mons pubis (area above the penis, usually covered with pubic hair unless he’s a metrosexual), testicles and perineum (area between the testicles and the anus). When you begin, make sure you have enough salivation to use as a lubricant. You can start slow by working your tongue around the glans and then back and forth on the shaft. Nibbling is OK but avoid too much teeth (ouch). Be sure to give the testicles and perineum a little play too. Licking and gentle sucking tend to feel good. Many men like a coordinated hand and blow job; so for all of your multi-taskers out there now’s your chance to shine. Check out http://www.penelopepardee.com for more sex tips.

Once you give him a little sprinkling of everything at the beginning, find a suction and a rhythm that works for both you and him. Make sure you keep your jaw relaxed and not clenched so you don’t experience blow job fatigue. If you are working towards getting him to ejaculate, find a repetitive motion and keep doing it to completion. Most men find it jarring to switch up out of the pattern too much near the end. Use offer code TIPS to get up to 50% OFF on most items, free shipping, adult DVDs, and a mystery gift at checkout at http://www.adamandeve.com.

Now to spit or swallow? That is the question. But there’s also a third option, some women and men like to watch him blow or he might want to ejaculate somewhere on you. It’s all a matter of personal preference and what works for you. Some women don’t feel complete unless they swallow while others aren’t thrilled with the prospect of having someone come in their mouth. Either way, you my dear are in control of the situation. After all, you have been kind enough to give the blow job so you get to call the shots (so to speak). Use offer code TIPS to get up to 50% OFF on most items, free shipping, adult DVDs, and a mystery gift at checkout at http://www.adamandeve.com. Check out http://www.penelopepardee.com for more sex tips.

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Now there has been some conjecture about what the fluid is actually made of. What we do know, is that it is not urine or merely your same old vaginal discharge. Nope. It has been shown to contain elevated levels of two proteins, prostate-specific antigen (PSA) and prostate-specific acid phosphatase (PSAP). PSA and PSAP are found in male ejaculate and come from the prostate.  Most male/female anatomy share equivalents of one another (think, clitoris/glans, testicles/ovaries) and this may indicate that women have something akin to a prostate.  It’s been suggested that the paraurethral glands, which run parallel to the urethra, are the "female prostate." Orgasm may cause these glands to empty out.  Use offer code TIPS to get up to 50% OFF on most items, free shipping, adult DVDs, and a mystery gift at checkout at http://www.adamandeve.com.

Now that we’ve established what the heck the G-Spot is and what the fluid may be let’s talk about stimulation shall we? Vigorous stimulation of the spot with a firm object tends to be what leads to a G-Spot orgasm. Fingers or penises are fine but many women find more success by using a sex toy specially designed for the job.  Some women may also experience an urgency to urinate once they begin to stimulate the G-Spot. This is a common sensation. I suggest to most women to just relax through the sensation as continued stimulation should eventually lead to a G-Spot orgasm and not their urinating without control.  Check out http://www.penelopepardee.com for more sex tips.

As stated, almost all women have the capacity for a G-Spot orgasm; some may or may not ejaculate. If you do ejaculate it may be from less than a teaspoon of liquid to more than a cup. When asked, most women say these orgasms have a different feel to them versus clitoral or vaginal orgasms -- they can actually be more intense. I do not know of any way to increase or decrease the amount of fluid expelled. It is what it is folks. Some women and men really love ejaculation; some aren’t thrilled with the mess it creates or are embarrassed by it. I think that anything that feels that good can’t be wrong. Just lay some towels or plastic out and enjoy. Whether you ejaculate or not, it leads to a really fabulous orgasm and that’s all that matters. Use offer code TIPS to get up to 50% OFF on most items, free shipping, adult DVDs, and a mystery gift at checkout at http://www.adamandeve.com.